You’re right. It was a long time ago, only happened the once. In my later years as I’ve explored my bi side, it has become my fantasy. Perhaps he turned into more than a fantasy, and I would be happy for him.
I've done that in a pool changing room with a lifeguard. It was open -- was kinda hoping someone would walk in to add to the fun. We did it a couple of times, then he got transferred to another pool.